10 Reasons Why Ladies Born In The 80’s and 90’s May Not Get Married Soon

It seems like in the recent years and maybe many years to come, the number of single women is increasing rapidly. Some choose to not get married and they get married very late in their lives because they choose their careers. And maybe they are not sold to the idea. It seems though; most women are bringing it upon themselves because of some habits that you can call part of the “pop culture” they can’t just let go. So if you are a woman born in the 80’s and 90’s and wondering why you aren’t married yet, maybe you possess some of the behaviors mentioned below.

1. Media Exposure
A lot of women are so caught up in the entertainment world, if they are not on their PC’s or mobile phones then they are watching some reality show. Their world revolves around that, what happened to being curious about the world around you, do people read anymore?

2. Not domesticated
With every person preaching gender equality, which we support 100%, most women have been brainwashed in the name of being modernized. No matter how well off you become, some men just prefer food prepared by their women. It’s a love gesture not abuse or inequality but it seems to be out of fashion to be domesticated.

3. Gadgets
The obsession young women have with gadgets is one of many reasons why they are still single. They have become too materialistic, anything that comes out they “need” to have it. Although men love confident, independent women, an expensive lifestyle can be such a turn off. There are way more important things in life than following trends.

4. Fashion obsessed
It’s not a bad thing to be a fashion lover, if it makes you feel good then go ahead but that surely cannot be your main priority to chase after trends and fashion. Who wants to be with someone whose desire in life is to acquire expensive clothes, perfumes and jewellery? Men might date you because of you but very rare that they will marry you because of your priorities which aren’t straight.

5. Make-up
Too much makeup can be such a turn off for most men. If you start observing, you’ll find that man don’t like women who wear excessive make-up, it can look very tacky and fake. Simple to natural look will attract decent, serious minded, better men for you.

6. Social media
Having an account on every single social media platform available is not the smartest idea for someone who wants to settle down; it just makes you look unfaithful. If you have facebook or twitter, keep a small number of close friends and family. Y our active participation on twitter or facebook may be doing you more harm than you think. If you can’t keep it small, close your accounts and focus on your offline life more.

7. Influential friends
There’s nothing like having girlfriends that you can share your stories with. But how much influence do they have on who do date and who is right for you? They have their own lives and maybe miserable and want you to be the same, wake up and realize it’s your life and the decision should be yours.

8. How you present yourself
In your attempt to look appealing be careful you might look appalling, just because your photo on facebook got 50 likes doesn’t matter, what should matter is what kind of attention are you grabbing? What is considered trendy and sexy by the media is for a certain type of women you probably wouldn’t want to be associated with. Be careful of the kind of people you attract if you want to find something real, sexy should be classy not trashy.

9. Lack of integrity
While being “hot” or “sexy” might get you a lot of attention, it’s your character and good manners that will make the good ones stay. How you speak, the conversations you get involved in, how you carry yourself should be your main concern. It’s great to be a strong woman with beliefs, it’s ok to be competitive with men but if done in a wrong way it just makes you look like a difficult person. Some things like nagging and being possessive you can do without ladies.

10. Role modelling
Have you payed attention on who you model and who you look up to? If fake celebrities and reality stars are what motivate you, you need to revise your priorities. Learn from great women who are respected, study and model how their routines and maybe instead of watching big brother or the Kardashians try watching CNN and be aware of the world around you that really matters.