Reality: Many people who die by suicide have communicated their feelings, thoughts or plans before their death.
Myth: Suicide is always an impulsive act.
Reality: Many people who commit suicide have experienced suicidal thoughts and have contemplated taking their own life before the act.
Myth: Suicide is an expected or natural response to stress Suicide is an abnormal outcome to stress.
Reality: Everybody experiences stress…not everybody attempts suicide
Myth: Suicide is caused by stress
Reality: Suicide attempts or acts of self-harm may sometimes occur following an acute stressor (such as the break-up of a relationship or following an intense argument) but the event is a behavioural trigger not a cause of suicide.
Myth: People who are really at risk for suicide are not ambivalent about completing the act.
Reality: The intensity of suicidality waxes and wanes many people who attempt or commit suicide struggle with their conviction to die.
Myth: People who commit suicide are selfish and weak
Reality: Many people who commit suicide suffer from mental disorder that may or may not have been recognised.
Myth: Someone who is smart and successful would never commit suicide.
Reality: Be careful… remember, suicidality is often kept secret. “Suicide” has no cultural, ethnic, racial or socioeconomic boundaries.
Myth: Talking about suicide with a depressed person will probably cause them to commit suicide.
Reality: Man depressed people who have suicidal thoughts or plans are relieved when someone knows about them and is able to help them. Discussing suicidality with a depressed person will not lead them to commit suicide.
Myth: There is nothing that can be done for a person who is suicidal
Reality: Many individuals who attempt suicide may be suffering from a mental disorder that will respond to appropriate and effective treatment.
Appropriate treatment of a mental disorder significantly reduces the risk of suicide. For example, suicidality associated with depression usually resolves with effective treatment of the depressive disorder.
Myth: People who attempt suicide are just looking for attention.
Reality: In some people a suicide attempt is an event that leads to a first contact with a helping professional. A desperate cry for help is not equivalent to wanting attention.
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