15 Things Not To Say During The First Stages Of The Relationship

Nothing is as exciting as a new relationship but it’s so easy to ruin it by saying the wrong thing. Guys are freaked out by the smallest things because they are hints of the girl’s intentions with them. They prefer it if things rather fell into place rather than being bound and forced to commit to things they weren’t ready for. So this list is for both the guys and the girls. Guys; if she says any of the following things, make a quick exit, and girls, here’s what NOT to say to a guy.

1. “So… I’ve been thinking about baby names.”

2. “I’ve been looking at houses, we can move in together in two month’s time, then get married in four months, and have a baby.”

3. “When am I meeting your family.”

4. “So I’m ovulating next week, don’t buy condoms…”

5. “I don’t like your friends.”

6. “Uhm babe, can I like borrow R5000 for this awesome hand bag I saw at the mall??”

7. After the first date : “Ah I had a great time. I love you!!!”

8. “So I have a plan for how we going to spend our weekends for the next four months!!!”

9. “Aaaaaw you remind me of my ex…” then she starts crying

10. “You smell like flowers, my dad uses this cologne, you should try it.”

11. Don’t cry over your first argument

12. “Do you love me??” … that time it’s only been two weeks

13. “Hey I saw this cool t-shirt at Mr. Price and I had your face printed on it. So I got you one with my picture printed on it. Isn’t it cute?! You can wear it to your friend’s braai next week.”

14. “Hey when are you joining the gym?! We need to look proportionate together you know.”

15. Introducing your child to them and saying: “Honey meet your new daddy!”