Unathi On How Deciding Not to Be the Bigger Person Has Impacted Her Life In the Past Year
Unathi On How Deciding Not to Be the Bigger Person Has Impacted Her Life In the Past Year. There comes a time in life, when one has to change how they have been doing things. For Unathi, it had to be how she handles herself in situations involving others.
The celebrated media personality and musician has went through a lot over the past few years. One of the major things include being fired from YFM, and her fight with Sizwe Dhlomo. Unathi though, dusted her feet, and a couple of presenting and hosting gigs came along.
She has just taken to Instagram, sharing a profound message about dealing with certain situations. Without being specific, Unathi shared how not being the bigger person negatively affected her relationship with others. On the other hand it benefited her personal being.
“I must confess, during the latter half of last year I decided I wasn’t going to be the bigger person neither was I going to continue taking the higher road.
“It has caused complete chaos on the outside but has brought me immense peace on the inside. TBH I told very few people that this is my new stance namely my parents because this is what they have expected of me my entire life,” she said.
Unathi added that at first things were hard for some people in her life, because it brings peace to be the bigger person.
“It’s been a BEAUTIFUL journey for me and a tough journey for some who have come used to the facilitator, peace maker in me. I realize this because they have to say goodbye to a version of me they liked. I get that.”
“But right now and forever futhi KUMNANDI kwa VOK VOK okanye kwa ANDIZI,” she said.
