5 Signs You Have A Selfish Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

Selfishness is sign of self gratification. If you partner is too self centered and believes his or her needs are more important than everyone else’s needs, you’re probably a selfish person even if you don’t think so.

He or She wants it their way. Your boyfriend or girlfriend always like doing something their way or going to places they like even if you want to do something different. If you coaxes him/ her to do something else or go to a different place, they sulk or pout the whole while.

He or She has an ego. Your boyfriend or girlfriend believe that losing an argument is a sign of weakness. And he or she just don’t like losing an argument or ending a discussion that goes against your way. This is something they do, not just in their relationship, but in every part of their life.

He or She can’t be unselfish. Your boyfriend or girlfriend may try to put your needs before theirs or try to be nice to you and love you unconditionally, but they just can’t bring themselves to it. They constantly find themselves trying to sneak in a better deal for themselves in everything they do with their lover, be it about the better piece of chicken or the bigger slice of pizza,

Emotional blackmail. Emotional manipulation is always a selfish low blow, however you look at it. Does your boyfriend or girlfriend give the silent treatment or just ignore you when you don’t do something their way?

He or he doesn’t apologize. Does your boyfriend/girlfriend get a hard lump in their throat each time they have to apologize to you? He or she may say they’re sorry very often when they don’t mean it or for trivial things, but when it’s something that really matters, do they hold yourself back or defend themselves even though they know they’re on the wrong?