5 Reasons Why Ladies Don’t Want To Go Out With You
There are a lot of signs that a woman just isn’t that into you. If you’ve made three attempts to contact her and she hasn’t responded at all, it’s probably time to move on. Other signs that she’s not interested are texting on a date, looking around the room for someone “better” to talk to or just generally appearing “bored” and not engaged.
Take a look ate these 5 Reasons Why Ladies Don’t Want To Go Out With You:
1. You have bad luck with women
No, you don’t. The first rule of fight club is forget all the crap you think you know. You don’t have bad luck with women. You performed poorly. Become the type of man whom women want by actually developing yourself as a person, and you’ll never feel like you had bad luck again.
2. You have social anxiety.
Whether this means you have anxiety speaking with women you’re attracted to, or a general uneasiness in all social situations, this is one of the more common reasons guys don’t succeed with women. How could you make a woman feel comfortable with you, if you don’t even feel comfortable with yourself?
2. You are naturally introverted.
A misconception with a lot of dating advice is that since a lot of guys who are naturally good with women are extroverted, you need to develop that personality type to also become good with women. This isn’t true. Introverts do awesome with women when they’re in a situation that allows them to show off their personalities. Ever heard of the “strong, silent type?” It’s an iconic image of what an attractive man looks like. James Bond is definitely not an extrovert.
3. You don’t know what you’re doing.
Our society fails in teaching young men how to relate to women. They don’t learn the skills needed to create the types of relationships they want with women. Growing up, guys are not taught how to cultivate and display character traits that women find attractive.
4. You are boring.
Here’s some common sense that too many guys ignore: You need to be around women to be able to attract them. You need to have an interesting life in order to have women want to be a part of it. If you only get out of your house to go to work and go grocery shopping, you aren’t likely to meet the kind of women you really want. If you don’t think your life is exciting, then why would a woman want to be a part of it?
5. You are too risk averse.
“But what if she rejects me?”
“What if I run out of things to say?”
“But what if other guys are watching?”
These questions are just smokescreens. The real issue is, you’re afraid to take a risk. You’re playing to lose, instead of playing to win.
