You know what, it’s ok for things to not work out or for you to break up with that one person you thought was going to meet the whole family, cousins and all included, or even share a surname with them. You would think that once you break up with someone, they would be out of your life, but some still find ways to drive you crazy and keep in contact with almost everyone you know.

Here’s a list of 10 Really Annoying Things That Exes Should Stop Doing:

1. Send you random texts at random times about random things.

“Hey, what was the name of that song you said you were obsessed with when you were a kid? I just heard it and it reminded me of you.” Stop. Just. Stop.  Or, they send you one those “I miss you” texts to just grind your tits a bit. Sometimes they even send that  ” please send me a pic of you it’s been a while since I’ve since” and you’re on some stalk me on Facebook or something. No one has the time to entertain trashed relations, get a life or a chat buddy please.

2. Flirt with other girls in front of you.

It’s like as soon as you accidentally bump into them somewhere, they start to flirt with anyone and everyone around you…on purpose. Most times they choose your best friend or closest friend because they know that that’s what will get to you most.

3. Hang out with your friends.

Sometimes you don’t mind being friends with an ex, but most of the time, you just want to keep your distance. Sorry, they were mine first. Like don’t try make my friends our friends it’s just not done man.

4. Talk about how awesome you are.

They pull out the you’re awesome card, constantly talk to your friends or their friends about how awesome you are. Thanks, but it’s a little late to be my cheerleader now. I need you to be on the opposing team and hate me cause right now I really don’t care what you think any more.

5. Go out every night.

And purposely post pics all over Insta of the awesome time they’re having with all your friends while you’re home catching up on series or chilling with the family that keeps asking about that ex.

6. “Like” your photos on Instagram and  Facebook.

Who doesn’t love that awkward feeling when your ex likes your selfie and comments with the heart emoticon? Not cool.  Like we’re done, hearts don’t exist in this relation, please stop it.

7. Do alllll the things you wanted to do when you were dating…with somebody else.

You’ve been talking about going on a picnic or to the zoo or just iceskating, and he always thought it was cheesy, but now he’s posting selfies with his new GF and a white Tiger walking behind them in tall grass. Ugh. Like get over yourself and your new relationship, you’re annoying.

8. Hang out at the amazing coffee shop/pizza place/diner that YOU introduced them to.

It used to be your favourite spot, then it became “our” favourite spot and now you can’t even go there anymore because he and his bros took over and made it the spot for the homies. No one wants to worry about how they look everyday just because they know they’re going to find you and your annoying friends at their favourite spot.

9. Start dating someone you’re friends with.

It’s not cool when you have to hear about their relationship 24/7 through mutual friends. Just as uncool? When your ex starts dating someone you both couldn’t stand and now they’re on cloud nine posting pics everywhere.

10. Ask for you back the second you’ve moved on.

They wait until they see all your adorbs selfies with your new crush to tell you how much they miss you. But you’re just like: “We are never ever ever getting back together!”