He is not into you!

There is nothing painful than being in love alone or being into someone only to find out he is not into you. There signs are always there, we need to learn not to ignore them. They say actions speak louder than words, and men are the best action tellers by far.

A very view will tell your intentions at first hand. But the majority opts on keeping things to themselves and just communicating them via actions. The following are the signs:

He takes forever or never texts you back

·         In this day and age we live in the world where there is nothing easier than sending someone a message. He might not be sending you a text message but his certainly sending you a clear message in another form.

He maintains emotional and physical distance

·         You dating this person and yet you don’t know anything concerning his personal details and life. A guy who doesn’t share anything with you probably doesn’t want to go deep with you.

He never comes over to you

·         A guy who likes you will make an effort to show you that you are special to him. There are plenty of fish in the sea…run.

He doesn’t touch or hold you in public

·         This is a major warning sign. Its either he doesn’t want to be seen with you, or he is scared that his lover will find out about you.

He doesn’t pay attention to what you have to say

·         Meaning he doesn’t think that much of you. No girl appreciates a guy who can’t take them seriously, especially when you are talking.

He only sees you after midnight

·         The late night things don’t usually last. Ask yourself what he is doing all day long.

He won’t let you leave your belongings around his space

·         That would be a constant reminder of your presence in his life. He is trying to avoid that feeling because he doesn’t want you around.

He attends events without you

·         House parties, birthdays etc all fall under this category. He is making sure that you don’t get too involved in his life so it will be easier for him to move on and for you to move get out.

He never talks about future plans with you

·         If he only makes last minute plans with you, then you are nothing but a minute girl for him.

He is already involved with someone else

·         You are sharing him and his aware of it? Meaning he feels comfortable with that. You might never know whether he might leave his mate for you or not.

 Relationships would be so much easier if we learn to pick up on alarming signs from the onset.