Relationships are hard as it is so ladies try to follow this list and make your relationship with your man less stressful. I know you don’t want your man to go along with whatever you say or do, you probably want a man who will voice his opinion and stand his ground as man should. Here is the list of some things men wants you to do as their woman…
1. Know When To Talk – Know when it’s time to talk and when it’s time to not talk. Whether we’re on the phone or watching our favourite TV show or sporting event, we don’t want to be disturbed.
2. Let Us Be Men – Let us be men and accept it. Sometimes, a man can’t take anymore dirty diapers or hearing you nag at him all the time. Let us have some “men” time to decompress from all the day to day madness.
3. Girl Activities – Don’t MAKE us partake in your activities with your friends unless we want to. This can especially be annoying if you don’t like your significant other’s friends. It’s important for you to have your friends and for her to have her friends. Space and breathing room are always good things.
4. Engage In Our Activities – Engage in activities that we enjoy and get to know the things we like. There’s nothing better than a woman who will sit down and watch the game with you or a woman who voluntarily picks up the second X-Box controller and joins in the video game madness.
5. Cooking Woman – A woman who knows how to cooking is so attractive and sexy. A man wants to marry a woman who can cook so that he can enjoy home cooked meal, takeaways should be once-in- awhile type thing.
6. Laundry – women, if you are in relationship please take care of your men cause a man should never be asked to do laundry. This should just be a given. Men only like to look and smell good for women. PERIOD!
7. Grocery Shopping – Most men hate to grocery shop, so you probably shouldn’t ask us. When most men go shopping, they usually buy junk food and garbage because it’s convenient and easy to make. Women should understand this and take care of the shopping duties in the relationship.
8. Mind Games – Quit playing hard to get. Yeah, I bet you feel really cool when you’re playing your “game of the week” with a guy that likes you, but all you’re really doing is making him want to go for someone else. Life is too short for these games. If you like someone, then you should tell them.
9. Learn How To Maintain Your Own Stuff – Learn how to maintain your own car and electronics without coming to us every time there is a mishap. Most women are completely clueless and ignorant when it comes to maintaining their cars and electronics. Just because am a man, that does not make me an expert on the ins and outs of auto mechanics nor am I automaticallyqualified to help you. Sometimes, a little common sense works well in these situations.
10. Directions– Don’t call us for directions every time you’re lost. Please learn how to use your GPS like the rest of people.
11. Do I Look Fat? – Don’t ask us every day how you look or if you look fat. Men will NEVER answer truthfully to this question so there’s really no point in asking. We know if we answer truthfully, there will be a 4 hour conversation that takes place after as to why we think that way.
12. Surprise Gifts – Ladies this is unfair and you know it, if we are in relationship it’s a two way street not one. How about you surprise us(men) with gifts once in awhile and you’ll see with time you’ll get use to it.
13. Insecurity – Don’t always assume we’re looking or interested in other girls. Just because we’re having lunch with a female co-worker doesn’t mean we’re interested in them romantically. Try being secure and confident with yourself and this shouldn’t be an issue.
14. Men Doing the Cleaning – Don’t ask us to clean anything. Men hate this more than anything. I think we can compromise on taking out the trash and that’s as far as we’ll go. We would be more than happy to pay for a maid if it’s too much trouble for you to handle.
15. Text or Phone Call Delays – When we text or call you, don’t wait hours or even a day to respond. This isn’t the 80’s! Eveyone and their mother has a smart phone on their person 24/7 and we know you saw or heard the message. Again, games like these don’t fly with men. PERIOD!
16. Facebook/E-mail Stalking – Women really need to stop keeping “tabs” on their man’s day to day social media endeavours. If you are going to confront us on every comment or person we add as a friend then chances are you have mega trust issues.
17. Learn How To Apply Makeup – There’s plenty of unattractive women that can make themselves appear sexier and more attractive just by knowing how to apply makeup correctly. Most men like their woman to look as sexy and elegant as possible, so invest in some good quality make up, and learn how to make yourself as beautiful as possible.
18. Pay the Check Once in a While – it’s high time for ladies to take out their purses and pay for a change. We are men not banks!
19. That Time of the Month – When it’s that time of the month, control your attitude. Just because you have that monthly visitor, that doesn’t give you the right to treat everyone around you like dirt.
20. Engage In Our Activities -Engage in activities that we enjoy and get to know the things we like. There’s nothing better than a woman who will sit down and watch the game with you or a woman who voluntarily picks up the second X-Box controller and joins in the video game madness.
